你可以不要complain了吗？

你可以不要酱多assignment 吗？
你可以不要酱last minute吗？
你可以不要酱完美主义吗？
你可以不要酱伟大吗？
你可以不要酱多管闲事吗？
你可以不要酱负责任吗？
你可以不要理酱多吗？
你可以不要什么事都扛上身吗？


这样下去你就不用吃、不用喝、不用睡了，厉害咯，可以做仙了咯！

Kraftangan Ko-k in USM

This semester I have been signed up for Kraftangan as my Co-Curriculum course in USM.

Here we have 4 projects to complete.

The first is creative card making.

Okay, I know my card is very ugly. 

When I was making this card, I was like "WHY THE HELL I take this Kraftangan as my ko-k? It's suffering!!!!" I seriously can't do these sort of things! 

Unlike me, many of my frineds did it well, their cards seemed like the one you can find in bookshop, beautiful and creative cards.

Then the second project is shoe painting.

We need to bought a plain white shoe and then draw something on it and lastly paint it with something like water colour (but it is not water colour actually).

The colour won't wear off after you coloured it. Means u can wash the shoe like one you bought outside :)

SHOES for sale!!! Mai Pilih!!

The third is Anyaman Bakul.

Can you believed that this is made by ME??? Hahaha

I also can't believe it! But it's kind of torturing your fingers because it is ROTAN.

Although my work is not neat enough, but I feel so satisfied because I also can make this!

And last but not least is something like plaster or cement.

We were provided with the "acuan" and we mixed the cement with water then put it on the acuan and painted on it when it is dried.

This is actually from Irene and I only responsible to colour on it because I couldn't make it successfully after trying for 8 times, can you imagine, 8 times!! How poor am I!

My unsuccessful works:

Actually it's quite fun to take this Kraftangan Ko-k, because you can do something you can't and won't do usually in your whole long life.

But you have to spend sometime in your room to finish those project, unlike other ko-k which just go there, play around then go back.

Here I met some true friends who are willing to help you when you are in trouble.

They will lend their helping hands when you need help.

They are Ruey Zen, Phaik Leng, Irene and Doreen.

Great big hugs to you all! Thank you very much!!!

There was a lot of fun when we were chit-chating while doing those works! 

Nice to meet you all!! ♥

Just a simple sharing, hope you like it! :)

四个道理

一夜，领悟了四个道理：

1. 做事，是要看心情的。要在适当的心情做适当的事，不然不管你多想做那件事，没有适当的心情，做什么都没意义了。

2. 当别人做了任何让你不悦的事，不要怪他，因为人存在在这个世上的原因，不是为了取悦他人。

3. 永远不要做你自己都看不起的那种人。

4. 要向太阳花学习，无论今夜经历了再多的挫折，明早太阳升起后，还是要台起头，带着笑容，带着希望，向更美好的明天，重 新 出 发 ！

最近爱死了太阳花，打开电脑看到这壁纸，心情也变好了。

太阳花的花语：热情，活力。

It's a beautiful day, move on with a great smile on your face! =)

因鼓励而赞美

近期发现，有时候，别人赞你，不是因为你真的把某事做得很好，而是一种鼓励，鼓励你的下一次尝试，鼓励你做的更好。
人，总爱听赞美的话，别人赞你你就会很开心，如果他是真的赞你的话当然很好，但如果是为了鼓励你而成赞你的话，你知道了会怎么想？
有人说，去怀疑人家的真心很傻，为什么要去猜测别人、怀疑别人呢？信他就好了嘛！
也对，但自从知道“因鼓励而赞美”的道理后，被赞时就不再太过的飘飘然了。

会有种矛盾，我也要做“因鼓励而赞美”的事吗？
好像不很真心，但每个人都有需要被鼓励，需要被赞美的时候，也常常听到说“赞赞别人吧！”、“不要吝啬你的赞美”的话，他做得好，赞他是理所当然的；但，如果那人做得不太好呢？

结论是什么？
他做不好就不去赞美他，不去鼓励他？
抑或是“假意”的赞美他？
还是直接告诉他：“你这次做得并不好”，并真心地鼓励他？

矛盾。

好人 vs 好朋友

我常在想，应该再也找不到，任何人，像你们，对我这么好。

扪心自问，我自己并不是一个很好的人，但不知道为什么，我竟然这么幸运会遇到几个这么好人的朋友。

他们不求利益，不求回报，愿意牺牲，愿意帮忙，愿意倾听，愿意付出，愿意提供意见。

他们以真心对人，不只对我，对任何人都一样。

他们不辞劳苦，愿意为你做任何事。

我会想：为什么你们要这么好？

有个朋友告诉我，在社团认识的人和自己的coursemates，不一样就是不一样。

不是说coursemates 不好，而是他们对你就是跟社团的朋友不一样。

不知道你们有没有发觉到两者之不同。至于不同之处，你就自己去诠释吧！

很高兴在大学期间可以和你们相识、相知、相惜。

谢谢你们！

Lost in thought

道不同，不相为谋。

心情复杂。

当你撑不下去、想要放弃时，想一想，为什么当初你选择这一条路，想一想，为什么你能撑到这一分钟，却撑不下去。

加油！